Marriage Help

By Carolyn Flynn

marriage, marriage help, relationship help, relationships advice

It is the simple things that destroy a marriage or make it a loving healthy relationship. Follow these simple exercises to make your relationship a happy marriage.

Identify 5 things that you love about your spouse or partner:
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Example:
1. I love that my husband thinks I’m sexier than the supermodels, especially on days when I’m feeling fat and ugly
2. I love that my husband takes care of his health, and watches out for mine too
3. I love that my husband can fix anything
4. I love when my husband tells me I’m brilliant
5. I love the sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me

Identify 5 things that you appreciate about your spouse or partner:
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Example:
1. I appreciate how patient my husband is with me
2. I appreciate that my husband picks up after himself and cleans the house
3. I appreciate that my husband rolls with my cycles and mood swings
4. I appreciate that my husband likes my family and is willing to spend time with them
5. I appreciate that my husband takes care of our car so I don’t have to think about it

Now share at least one item from each list with your spouse or partner.

The more you share what you love and appreciate about your partner the stronger your relationship will become.

One of the biggest mistakes couples make in relationships is complaining about all the things they don’t like or are unhappy with. That only creates unhappiness in a relationship.

Share what you love and what you appreciate to create a happy marriage and loving relationship.

By Carolyn Flynn

Flickr photo by The Welsh Poppy/Rachel Davies


Carolyn Flynn is a Relationship Expert and author of Heal Your Grief, SMART Talk, and Holiday Peace And Joy.

To Love Your Woman Show Affection Throughout the Day

By Carolyn Flynn

love, affection, romantic relationship, love and romance

By Carolyn Flynn

Woman need to feel loved and appreciated throughout the day. They need their “love well” filled before they can turn it on in bed.

Speak positively to your lady, give her compliments, express gratitude and appreciation, tell her how much she means to you and how much you love her. Show her you love her with hugs, kisses, and tender caresses.

Stroke her hair, hold her hand, put your arms around her when you are talking with her; give her gentle touches that tell her how much you want to connect with her and be with her.

Listen to her. Help her with her home and family. Let her know you care about her, need her, and love her. Demonstrate in word and action how much you love her.

Flickr photo by Jesse757/Jesse CourteManche


Carolyn Flynn is a Relationship Expert and author of Heal Your Grief, SMART Talk, and Holiday Peace And Joy.