Every day is a great day to celebrate your love and tell him/her how much you love them.
Celebrate your love relationship with these 31 ideas for romance.
1. Give romantic flowers just because you love her/him
2. Make her/him breakfast in bed
3. Write a love poem for your sweetheart
4. Fly a kite together
5. Feed each other chocolate covered strawberries
6. Watch the sunset together
7. Have a candlelight bath for two
8. Share a cup of love – hot chocolate, coffee, or whatever warms your heart
9. Play footsies during dinner
10. Have a picnic at the park or on your living room floor
11. Go Salsa Dancing
12. Hold hands at the movies
13. Train for a marathon together
14. Make spaghetti and watch Disney’s “Lady and the Tramp”
15. Read a romance novel together
16. Give her/him a peppermint foot massage
17. Share a bowl of ice cream
18. Send your lover a love note
19. Have a backwards dinner. Start with dessert first.
20. Go on an outdoor adventure together
21. Tell him/her how much you love and appreciate him/her
22. Bring a picnic lunch to his/her work
23. Make homemade pizza together
24. Send a sexy photo
25. Watch the sunrise with hot chocolate, orange juice, muffins and bagels
26. Ride bikes together
27. Have a romantic comedy movie marathon night
28. Go on a romantic walk together and look for signs of Spring
29. Kiss in the moonlight
30. Buy sexy lingerie
31. Snuggle in bed together
By Carolyn Flynn LPC
What are your favorite romantic ideas?
Share how you will show your love this month in the comments below.
Carolyn Flynn, LPC holds a Master’s degree in Counseling with additional studies in Nutrition and Holistic Health. She provides a unique blend of mind-body solutions to create health, happiness, and loving relationships. She is a strategist, problem-solver, and intuitive guide. She believes every woman deserves to feel beautiful, serene, and happy. She is committed to helping women create lives they love. She is the author of SMART Talk, Heal Your Grief, and Holiday Peace and Joy.
By Carolyn Almendarez
One of the most vulnerable dangers for gaining unwanted excess weight is relationship conflict.
Relationship conflict is any form of friction, discord, struggle, incompatibility, dissonance, disagreement, argument, or debate between two people.
Anyone who’s had a fight or argument with their spouse or significant other knows first hand the spiral of highly charged negative thoughts, feelings and actions that often follow in response to the environmental stressor or person you are engaging with.
The negative thoughts and emotions from relationship conflict can trigger emotional eating, stress-eating, and sleep deprivation. They can also hog up a lot of emotional and psychological energy impairing your ability to think clearly and work productively.
A single conflict can trigger an avalanche of unhealthy reactions in your thoughts and behaviors, and trigger a cascade of stress-reactions within your body, all of which will contribute to impaired sleep, poor eating habits, increased weight, and decreased work performance and productivity.
In your emotional pain you might turn to Ben and Jerry, Orville Redenbacher, or the Red Baron to soothe your emotional wounds. While these men might give you some temporary comfort, they will also leave you with a lot of unwanted baggage that’s hard to get rid of.
Emotional eating can compound the negative effects of relationship conflict with additional feelings of guilt and negativity about yourself and your body for indulging in high-fat, sugary or processed foods.
In addition, women tend to think in terms of relationships, so it is especially unsettling and distracting to our minds and thought processes when there is conflict in our primary relationships.
But what happens physiologically when you experience relationship conflict?
When you have conflict with your spouse, significant other, or other important relationship your body triggers the internal emergency stress-response system, physically preparing you to fight or flee the danger-provoking situation. But most relationship conflicts are emotional and verbal, not physical. So what does this mean?
When the body detects any kind of perceived threat or stress it triggers a cascade of emergency hormonal and neurotransmitter signals sending your blood and energy to your outer limbs and increasing the production and storage of fat so that you have plenty of energy to fight or flee the stress-producing situation.
The whole stress-response process is designed to give the body the maximum amount of fuel and energy to fight or flee. This was a great survival technique when we were up against saber-toothed tigers and wooly mammoths. But our modern society of constant emotional and psychological stress requires a clear thinking mind to resolve the stressors, not extra fat for fuel.
So the more stress you are under the more fat your body is producing and retaining in an effort to protect you from the perceived threats and dangers. Relationship conflict always triggers the stress-response system and the production of extra fat. Professional women are especially vulnerable to stress-related weight gain from professional and personal relationship conflicts.
Balancing work and relationships can be an emotional challenge for the success driven professional woman. Conflict, arguments, not feeling heard, and lack of support from your spouse or significant other can really put a strain on your love life, your business success, and your weight.
In the SMART Relationship Communication program I walk you though the steps to resolve relationship conflict, get your feelings heard, and build trust and intimacy in your relationship. All of these processes provide ways to de-stress and give your body the all-clear message to release unwanted excess weight.
No one is immune to the affects of relationship conflict and stress, but with training and practice you can minimize the negative impact they can have on your life, relationships, waistline, and business. The SMART Relationship Communication program teaches you the skills and tools to vanquish the negative effects of relationship conflict.
The SMART Relationship Communication Program will not only help you to prevent excessive weight gain, but it can help you improve your sleep, improve your eating patterns, and most importantly improve your relationships.
Go to http://CarolynAlmendarez.com/smart to learn more and start improving your waistline and relationships today!
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